There are days when the maddening nature of the to-do list gets to me and I would really like to just be left alone! The victim in me screams at every new expectation that comes into view and collapses into a pitiful mess that can be pretty ugly. It was in this state that J walks into the kitchen as I'm cooking dinner and says, "What are we having? Are you going to make a salad?" To which I reply with a sigh, "I don't know. I haven't really decided yet. I'm pretty tired." I knew we probably needed one, but hadn't made up my mind to spend the energy yet. As I'm contemplating it all, J says "I'll
do it. I need a cutting board." Before I could even argue with him, he was well on his way making a salad. Now, granted, this kid loves his salad, but more notable is his enthusiasm to learn and to help, especially in the kitchen. He definitely humbled this momma.
We all get tired and unenthusiastic sometimes because life is heavy. Today, though, I was reminded by this rambunctious 5 year old that it all starts in your attitude and perspective. When we believe there is more to learn and experience, then we can face it with a smile! I suggested at dinner that maybe J should be a chef and he said, "Maybe. Or a horse man." The kid loves his horses.
|The kids came out the other day all dressed up.