As much as we love this time of year, the holidays can be so stressful. With social media begging you to compare everything and my family’s wants far outweighing their needs most of the time, it is enough to bring out the Grinch in anyone! Nothing sucks the joy out of these special times faster than your heart being clouded with a big stress.ball. Especially as parents, our moods set the tone for everyone else and those tense comments we make out of panic or frustration can easily bring the whole house into arguments, if we’re not careful. For those of you who thrive under pressure and simply see the chaotic yuletide plans as an interesting challenge, thanks for all you do and we’ll try not to let you make us sick with all your crafty skills. For the rest of us, it’s just not worth the mental breakdowns and the physical toll stress takes on our bodies. We have to find a better way to balance what is doable with what is desirable.
When it comes to the holidays or special occasions, my ideas are usually bigger than my budget or my time will allow. Sometimes it is the things I do to please others. Other times I find myself committing to a job because no one else will. Then, of course, there are my favorites that I can’t bear to skip or don’t want to miss out on. I’m also an introvert, which means all of the people time can be extra exhausting. Like most wearying things in life, none are so bad in and of themselves, but when I try to do them all, bad things happen. Like the frog in the pot of water that doesn’t realize he’s slowly boiling, many of the things I love about the holidays are the ones turning me into the worst version of myself. That is too heavy a price to pay when the entire purpose of this season is to bring joy, peace and family fulfillment.
So, what’s a family-loving mom to do to when she seems to spread holiday stress instead of cheer? Take a breath and shift gears, of course!
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